Riddle-me-Ree, Who can she be?

Greetings wonderful MTBs!!!
and good work to all of you!
For having solved the riddle before
I give you all this clue.

The letter " F "

Write it down, add it on...
And let’s move on to the next little song

“Two men rule her life, one charming and tall;
The other one engaging, also handsome, but small.
She loves her cocktails and also her wine
All it takes to recognize her is a little thought and time.”

Solve it and you get your lead
Misguess, and you lose your speed
Solve it slow but solve it now
And before you go, take a little bow

Go to 'Comments' and leave me a clue
Tell me which blog you are off to.
Good luck! Good luck! Be on your way.
You have your work, cut out for the day!